Pics by Pauly Littrell) This is not the Jesus I know, the Jesus who ate with notorious sinners and scandalized the religious as a result. Home Blog Farewell Jen Hatmaker: the brutality of unhealthy religion. Selena Gomez and Hailey Bieber drama: A complete timeline of their feud This story has been shared 20,804 times. But my questions remain. Any affront to the gospel is heresy. A public figure often needs to be called publicly. And it has been confusing and a massive struggle to say the least. But yes, darn it, we really do need a theology of sexuality. After six years of growth, mature budget, people growing in Christ, we had three to four couples in our church create their pack, circled the wagons, and made sure that at the cost of unity in the body of Christ that they were going to exude their spiritual superiority at any cost. Law and love are often in conflict. I dont know what you mean about the not having friends part-no one says that. There are many of us in the Body that once were insiders that are no longer. In the meantime, lets pray for our sister currently in the crosshairs of unhealthy religion, knowing that at any time it could be you or me who draws the ire of her detractors. Others are not free to dump anything that they have not. They practice infant baptism (sprinkling), though thats not clearly a thing we see demonstrated in the Bible. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. The old you have to be tolerant of my intolerance argument. Frankly, I've always taken my son to Target in his Batman costume and let my daughter wear a leotard and boots to church. Many are calling it out. If one is dealing with public preaching its irrelevant. He encouraged the person to stop sinningmaybe because of His love for people, knowing that sin hurts the personnot because Jesus was focused on condemning sin. Your email address will not be published. There wasnt any theological issues, no heresy. Since when did social media become the first step to hold someone accountable. We need a new class in seminary and Bible schools: Communication 102 Using public media wisely examples from the Gospels and the Epistles. One form is that we are righteous and can get to heaven through out good deeds. The grace of God is a core gospel issue. Earlier I mentioned the Presbyterians. To learn more about the artists and discover more of their work:https://a ANC 12-23-22 Christmas Eve Eve Live Service, Ascension Day. Do you believe that the earth was created in six days? There is nothing more frightening to a human being (and this time I say this from personal offline experience) than the sense that the community is turning on them. It is a pattern of sin emanating from our wicked hearts. However, if you are saying that it is sin, but teaching theological self-justification is not false doctrine, its being double-minded. Samantha Beach Kiley is a writer and performer, and the creative arts pastor at Austin New Church in Austin, Texas. Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. And I think the fact that evangelicals seem to focus on one prominent dissenter at a time, making an example of that person by public mockery and critique is cruel and unbecoming. Truth is truth, however, and it is offensive. I do agree with your comment to Link above, and I most certainly believe that the place for confrontation is not social media or blog posts. What comes to mind for me in countering your view is Matthew 18:6-9. Yet, I find myself sobbing in my back yard as I listen, hoping no one hears . Praise His holy, beautiful name. Maybe try and figure out where your love went. Cracking a loud whip has always been the most effective means of controlling the movement of large groups of animals. But Truth of sin doesnt waver. Lets all do our best to avoid generalities. The best place to confront false teaching is on Sundays from the pulpit (like in Pauls letters which were meant to be read to a local church) and in personal discussion, where real Q & A dialogue can happen. Where do you get that any sex outside your strict standard is disapproved of by God? However, I am 100% sure its not sin, so I feel like I am doing nothing wrong and am not presenting an affront to the gospel. Whatever that sin is, we have to turn. Thanks for those two references for healthy faith/church/religion. Same-sex couples can be married by American or any other countys law, and thats fine. I had never really heard of Hatmaker before and then I heard she inclusive of same sex relationships. I know that I was matching hyperbole with hyperbole. These people who destroyed the church, still kept their homes, their jobs, while me and my entire staff were left picking up the pieces to start our lives over again. JM reports that membership at ANC has decreased by approximately 40% in four months. Stop making excuses. The person is not called out publically, they are called in in love. What we call Christianity is not what I have experienced in China, the Middle East, etc Those fellow believers faith cost them something, while much of our experience here in America is a raw form of spiritual narcissism. I think that response is spot on Mike. This surely is something many evangelicals would agree with. At the same time large swaths of the blogosphere blew up with the story, starting with Christian watchblogs and Christian feminist blogs and then spreading to atheist sites. Im convinced that Paul was the first hippie and Jesus was a hardliner who called people to even higher standards than the Law of Moses. I think we should go one layer deeper, where is the accountability of the Jens and the Robs? Its in alignment with the word of God because Paul said teachers have harsher judgment, and Jesus said those who teach people to break moral law will be called least in the kingdom. Restore Groups (Missional/Incarnational Communities) are clusters of friends throughout the city in which community, communion, and mission unfold as a way of life . A Loving response: Youre right this issue is important to me, but attacking somebody is never okay, and is not Christ-like. Sorry but Jesus said nothing about a man and a woman only, as a matter of you require a man and a woman to make a marriage, no gays allowed they were ASKING him about DIVORCE, and how a man could give a woman a letter and divorce her. As a pastor I realize that people in churches are now being taught the meaning of the Bible mainly on-line, through sermons, blogs, tv shows, and books, probably more than personal dialogue on Sunday mornings or in small groups, or over coffee with me or other leaders, whose ministries are disciple-making. Ive been reading it for many, many years. You might as well say two people chatting over coffee should be held to a higher standard. Call off the attack dogs. Now we all sin, its truee, and we should be inclusive. Frank, I have great difficulty taking seriously anything said by someone who refers to an eternal truth from the Bible. Even our own. I normally see this belief system among my fellow women and with weak men. So I ask, is not healthy religion a figment of the imagination? Whats funny to me is, Christians like to hold up Jews as the ultimate legalists, but Ive been getting to know some Jews and theyre not, at all. Updated August 18, 2020 Jesus was not harsh with sinners; His only harsh words were for wayward religious leaders. Either you believe it is sin, and you teach people that Gods grace can cover this and help people take it to the cross. I know I will forever be grateful to God for the two years I had at that church and the people I met that changed my life for the better. Later compilers did that. Was the FMCUSA informed of the Hatmakers doctrinal change before it was publically announced on the internet? I listen, but I no longer debate their criticisms and small mindedness. LOCATION | The 04 Center 2701 S Lamar Blvd, Austin, TX 78704 . What a terrible way to talk about Good Friday., http://www.holmeslybrand.com/culture/2017/4/21/jen-hatmaker-please-stop. Actually it is addressed in much of scripture. Focus on immaterial things I do. Well, thats logical enough. Its not what you say but when and how you communicate it. Why because no where in the Bible does it say it is okay. If I am wrong on this issue, I am practicing a form of self-justification and teaching self-justification. Someone who struggles with homosexual sin and constantly takes it to the cross of Christ, falls and gets back up seven more times is in a much better position gospel-wise than somebody who self-justifies their sin theologically. We should know by now what Gods word is. This timeline is compelling and will sadly, i fear, be ignored. I can agree that some Christians do not handle differences well, and that problems are handled in some with gossip, slander and unbiblical methods of correction. 17 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. Thank you for sharing your story and heartache. 'Art forms such as spoken word, poetry, drama, dance or even instrumental music have large been relegated to a rare holiday service if at all . So many people do want to be christians because so ofter christians are brutal to one another. "Go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.'. I am never for calling names but when false teachings arise they must be dealt with. We cant say its ok because peoples feelings might be hurt. But an encounter with a homeless man who wanted his Texan boots changed all that. Meets in the Community Center 512-789-3222. When Jen Hatmaker wrote a raw and heartfelt blog about the pain shes been through over recent attacks and posted it on Good Friday, she was taken to task for daring to identify her pain with that of Christs. Hair style and food choice, andso many other abominations are overlooked. The couple split in August 2020 after several years of marriage. Wilshire Baptist Church, a Dallas-area congregation, voted in 2016 to extend full membership to homosexually active people, including leadership ordination and marriage officiation. Brandon is a former pastor of Austin New Church (located in Austin, Texas, USA). Most respectful comments disagreeing with her stance are deleted. Hatmaker was the lead pastor of the church before resigning on Friday afternoon after admitting that he had an affair with another man while married to his wife (who is also openly gay). Required fields are marked *. My plea to people is, just remember youre talking about a human being. But those who are outside God judges. To say other wise could cause them not to have Jesus as Lord. Jesus is in charge of me. And to say that marriage between two homosexuals is not wrong-well, I cant even believe we have to have this conversation. But the feeding frenzy around Jen Hatmaker isnt that. Thats a relief! But, please tell me, where did Jesus call it a sin ? Through my pain, I am in such a better place, but honestly my wounds still seep and Im still licking them toward wholeness. Im not fucking with anyone, man. If they dont like it, they dump it. Common Confession And did he lower the behavioral bar re sexual sin or raise it? I very much liked the quotations this article ends with. (In the latter, its called the Church Discipline passage & is about kicking people out. People forget about Jesus chasing people with a whip. Jesus didnt talk about sexually abusing children. focusing on OUR being : The Scriptures are clear that believers of the Christian faith often speak in tongues. I was raised Baptist, so I was taught that baptism (immersion by dunking) was a sign of your new faith in Christ, but it didnt actually save you. I was a sinner when saved and I still sin. If you work on the Sabbath, how do you justify that? Well, the opposite. Not worth attempting to reason with. If people are pointing to the Son who died for our sins that we deserved, so that we might be right before God (2 Cor 5:21), then there is no issue. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Farewell Jen Hatmaker: the brutality of unhealthy religion, Its perfectly natural, not perfectly biblical, to desire the death penalty, A tale of two Christianities on its knees. Jesus wanted to create a stampede of animals out of the temple, and theres no reason to conclude he used the whip for any other purpose than this. Throughout the week, our campus is alive with energy and hope. No, Jesus didnt specifically say that polluting the earth is wrong, but it shows disdain to God who created it. Make sure love wins, even if it kills us. What about speaking in tongues? It does seem there is a growing, insatiable desire in Christian circles to hurriedly name the next heretic, rather than lovingly correct or engage in healthy dialogue. Self justification can take many forms. I hang out in mosques, Buddhist temples, and bars and show broken people the love of Jesus with no condemnation. But we should not bend Gods word with our own to meet the secular world. We cant receive grace from something we dont actually believe is a sin. The few times PAUL talks about homosexuality, FYI, he either uses the terms that literally mean pedophilia OR they get lumped in with every other sexual act outside of marriage, including STRAIGHT SEX. And thats the good news that saves lives and supersedes our sexual drives. Is one sin worse than another? With only a framework of religion, either The Right or The Left will show that broken Identity. They think the Old Testament God is not the same God of the New Testament or that God changed his mind and has mood swings. If you dont know where get a commentary or a Bible thst has an index of where versus are. But what if your kid asks if he can kill the neighbors punk kid because God did it. Will you tell your child he cant do that? I dont know the answer, but Jesus was public in his condemnation plenty of times too. Please let me clarify something I just wrote above: Yes, homosexuals as well as anyone else should be allowed-ENCOURAGED-to attend church for the reasons above-to repent and get help, whatever the sin is, not just homosexuality. But this, I humbly submit as just my opinion. Do you keep Saturdays holy? If Jen Hatmakers beliefs prevent one teen from committing suicide because they are gay then maybe all this public scrutiny is worth it. Its a difficult place to beI feel like Im losing my home. And I visit quite a few churches around the place. Our campus is more than just a building where we gather on Sundays. IN-PERSON | 2701 S Lamar Blvd, Austin, TX 78704 ONLINE | Facebook or YouTube I'M NEW HERE. But we have GRACE. We wont argue anyone into Kingdom of God. Holly, let me guess: Youre heterosexual and married or in a relationship with a manmaybe you have kids. Dude you are completely crazy and maybe you need to take. Plain and simple. Lets treat evangelical as a label controlled by individuals, not as a measure of fidelity. I know lots of sincere believers who practice infant baptism. But I understand itI was one of those at one time, too. I have. Way too much dialogue is done publicly and its not healthy. Jesus came & died to forgive sin, not condemn people. Grace is just as available to her in Christ as it always was, and any believer whose heart HAS in fact been transformed by the love of Jesus and the work of Holy Spirit longs for her to be grounded in truth and to be reconciled. Im both cheered by this article while remaining concerned that we Christians (I dont call myself Evangelical anymore since Trump) arent very deep about our understanding of sexuality and many related topics. And if we as a group stand together and say this we are wrong? He established the church with his then-wife, Jennifer Lynn Hatmaker, in 2008. And maybe that is good. Online. Paul himself did not break up his letters into chapters and verses. JM: Jason Morriss, primary teaching pastor and elder at ANC, employed by the Free Methodist Church to serve at ANC since 2013, previously of Joel Osteens Lakewood Church in Houston . Im out of the loop, but it seems to me that the comments are illustrating the point of the blog. You just made me so happy. Do you know anyone whos a part of the Churches of Christ? If youre going to browbeat multiple people with one Bible passage in a public forum, seems like you should actually be quoting the right Scriptures. They are for you to follow. Writers love to do this and then proclaim, Look! Thanks for the great submission Mike. Ive had to distance myself from several in the Christian community where I live following character assassination and some harassment. Jen already said how she came to her changed decision she isnt going to answer you one by one because 1. Come be part of what God is doing." Why dont we quit pretending that we speak for Godor even that the Bible is clear on everything it teaches? Or are you making the point that its ok to be harsh because of Jesus example at the temple? Once the congregation saw what happened, the church shut down three weeks after my resignation. It may exist elsewhere but not in the realm of Christian orthodoxy. In January of 2018, after coming under the . The same thing happened to Vicky Beeching, here in the U.K (although a lot of her ministry was in the states so she was battered from So, what does healthy religion look like? I apologize for such a long post. And Im frankly sick and tired of the broken bodies and lives as a result. Im not suggesting religious communities shouldnt have core beliefs and clear tenets of faith. Tuesday. So if I am being loving, I am accepting and embracing all kinds of heresies and now truth is blasphemed. God allowed polygamy, rape victims being forced to marry their rapists, soldiers being allowed to keep women as spoils or war, brothers marrying sisters. Austin Miniatures Western Church Wild West Cowboys Conte Compatible Marx TSSD. I think its important, when considering Matt 18s instruction, to keep in mind how Jesus treated gentiles and tax collectors. Ah, yes. Let no man divide what God has put together., 7 The proud religious law-keepers said to Jesus, Then why did the Law of Moses allow a man to divorce his wife if he put it down in writing and gave it to her? 8 Jesus said to them, Because of your hard hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives. Excellent thoughts regarding correction, Michael Frost. But we cant go to the other extreme and do nothing about wayward leaders. He told the prostitute to sin no more. It was not like that from the beginning. Maybe youre PCA, and if so, I would ask you how you justify the idea of salvation through grace alone when verses like Matthew 7:21, Romans 2:13, and James 2:24 show very clearly that works are a part of it. This should surprise no one, least of all the writer. I agree with you, Mike. Do you keep the Sabbath holy? Wow, thanks for that. None of which makes any sense if the church already knows. Original post: The Church is judgmentally and systematically abusing people within the Church for issues that are not central to the Gospel this needs to stop! There was ample time before their opinions were made public to meet with mentors and leaders to understand that what they say may not be well received. Jesus did say Burn thine enemies to the ground when they disagree with you. He gave one hard and fast litmus test: Love the Lord your God with all your heart and your neighbor as yourself. No, Jesus didnt specifically say armed robbery is wrong, but it harms your neighbor. 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